Christmas Reflections
This Christmas was one of many new traditions. Although change inevitably requires some adjustment, I'd say that all my new holiday experiences have been good. To start, this was my first Christmas in 5 years without the stress of finishing up exams or the worry of moving to a new city to prepare for another school or work term. VERY NICE! Although I still managed to leave my Christmas shopping to the last minute (I'll blame that on the stress of car shopping the month prior), I still found I was more relaxed and could better enjoy the holidays. I managed to spend every evening from the 20th to the 24th with friends from all facets of my life. It was great!
This year my family decided to do Christmas in Waterloo at Mark's new house since all 4 of the "kids" live in this city and my parents (being retired) have the freedom of a flexible schedule. And given the outcome of the weather, it was good that they were able to arrive a few days early. Our Christmas eve and morning routines were new and creative this year. After arriving at the St. Jerome's Christmas Eve church service at 4:30pm (scheduled to start at 5pm) to find standing room only (and even a spot to stand was hard to come across), some of us opted to go home and relax. Mom, dad, Rob, and Anita found some chairs, while Mark, Sandra, Mike, Laura and I went home and finished some last minute wrapping and relaxing. The rest of the evening was spent enjoying a yummy "pot-luck" dinner and watching Die Hard on Mark's new 55 inch television.
Christmas morning was also interesting as I was woken at 3:30am to Rob getting a bottle for Andrew, 6:00am to Sandra feeding Marly, and 7:30am to the commencement of breakfast preparations (the price I pay for not having a bed to sleep in and having to opt for the couch). Our morning activities were slow and enjoyable and somehow extended late in the afternoon. We finished it off with a swim in Mark's pool and then I headed off to London to spend some time with Andrew and his family. From London, I drove to Owen Sound for one evening to visit with some friends, and then back to Waterloo the next morning to work for a couple of days. I even managed to meet up with Ming, Nat and Kristy in Guelph for a delicious dinner and some intriguing conversation. From Waterloo it was back to London for New Years celebrations and then back to Waterloo to prepare for the upcoming week. Phew... what a schedule! But well worth it.
One thing I particularly realized this Christmas is how presents are meaning less and less to me each year. Although I very much appreciate all that I received, I recognize the fact that I actually felt guilty and overwhelmed by the amount of generosity. I think that the devastation of the Tsunami amplifies this reality. I also recognize that the news of one of my friends losing her mother to Leukemia over the holidays reinforces the fact that friends and family are what really matter the most. In honour of these two events I have decided to split my Christmas money towards two causes: the Tsunami relief fund and the Princess Margaret Hospital research fund. The gift of giving just feels good.
I hope all have had and enjoyed a safe and happy holiday too. Can't wait to hear about everyone elses stories...